The quest (1997-2006)

After a while I got my act together and found out what I needed to do to possibly be able to return to Australia permanently. Next to a fulltime job I started studying to become a social worker. If it wasn't for Niki I would have lost my sanity and probably gained at least 10 kg. But I didn't, she kept me moving and outdoors which I needed with this schedule. I graduated after 3,5 years because I was in a hurry. I needed two years of working experience in this field and to have that before I turned 35, otherwise I would loose points on age. Just in time I applied for a visa - skilled independent migrant. And the waiting started.

Meanwhile I decided to explore other options. When having lived in New Zealand for two years you can get into Australia as well I was been told. So in 2003 I checked New Zealand out and applied for jobs. Just around accepting one I ran into Rick, a friend of a friend, and fell in love. As Rick was willing to move with me but once, I decided to put him on the application for Australia and see what would happen.
I fell pregnant. Joy was born. Not long after, against all advise, I inquired about the progress of my application. The immigration deparment had left my file on the wrong stack they said. A few months later I received the visa for Joy and myself, unfortunately the relation with Rick did not last.
In March 2006 Joy and I 'activated' our visa and explored possibilities and options for a possible future in Australia.